emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.
this is important because so many people don’t know this
me: i hate mondays
cishet ally: [crying] i was born on a monday! why do you hate me?! what did i ever do to you?
I just got so excited cuz I realized that this time next week I’ll be with my boston babes
Like there was screeching and fist pumping and there might have been some cabbage patching involved idk ask the authorities